Hi Frank,
From a mans perspective, what is it that attracts you most to a lady? The guys I know just seem to be attracted to boobs and behinds, and frankly i'm sick of it! I struggle to understand what is it you guys want.....if you're sweet and reserved, sometimes they struggle to recognise you're interested, if you're forward, they think you're brassy, if you don't smile, you've got an attitude, if you like to smile, they read into it far too much at times.....seriously!! Feels like we can't win.
Then when you do get with the person you feel you should be with, can't help but think they are looking for something else and you're just there to fill a gap! Drives me mental, eek!
__________________________________________________________
Well ladycakes,
Sounds like you've been going for the wrong guys! Can't help but think you ladies are just as complex, I don't think we'll ever know what you want!
OK, guys are interested in boobs and behinds, it human nature! We can't help but look, its a subconscious natural instinct to look when we see someone we're attracted too. Granted there are guys out there that will check out every single broad that walks past, some of us are more subtle!
I can't speak on behalf of all men, just because people are attracted to different things, different qualities. Some guys want a good time, some want a companion, some want to settle down, sometimes you meet someone at a certain time and just go with the flow.Sometimes you meet someone and it's a instant hit, sometimes it takes time, depends on the people, circumstance etc.
Me personally, I like a woman to be themselves, someone with a nice smile and confidence. Definitely someone who makes me laugh, those are very attractive qualities in a lady for me.
Hope that gives you a little insight.
TRUE TRUE
ReplyDelete